Showing posts with label La Casa de Amistad. Show all posts
Showing posts with label La Casa de Amistad. Show all posts

3.06.2026

The Conversation I Wish I Had Finished

Last night I had dinner with Andrew Peñalva from the Indiana Latino Institute and Juan Constantino from La Casa de Amistad at Brew Works in South Bend.

After dinner Andrew headed out and Juan and I stayed for a beer. I was actually about to change tables to meet Jenn for music bingo when a couple at the bar walked past us on their way out. The husband stopped, stood over Juan, and said something along the lines of:

“You’re stealing from us.”

Juan and I both assumed right away what he meant. La Casa de Amistad had recently received a major grant (cause La Casa is the best). Juan calmly explained that La Casa raises private donations from foundations and individuals.

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The man clarified.

He said we were stealing tax dollars.

I chimed in. I mentioned I used to work at La Casa and that the organization relies on philanthropy, not government funding.

That’s when the conversation shifted.

He said he knew who I was, attempted (poorly) to pronounce my last name (see, even Latinos say my name wrong), and then said the quiet part out loud:

“No. It’s illegals taking our taxes.”

The conversation wasn’t about nonprofit funding anymore.

It was about immigrants.

Juan calmly explained that La Casa serves everyone in the community who walks through the door needing help. I told him I wasn't going to change his racist mind, which his wife made sure I knew he was Mexican and of course not racist, and the wife (white I assume) said she didn't mind being called racist anymore. The racist word came out too soon, and it stifled my ability to make good points, I messed that up. I did know how to help end it though, unfortunately racists are generally religious. I learned it at La Casa that to end a confrontation, I often told the person I would pray for them, and they would lose it. So did he, how dare I, how dare I invoke the name of his god against his racist thoughts. So he insulted me, and I was ready for that and calmly told him, that I wanted to be very clear (I said it twice), that I didn't care what he thought of me, and that I would be praying for him. 

They walked out. 

Almost ten years ago La Casa launched a campaign called “No Human Being is Illegal.”

Back then I spent a lot of time responding to phone calls and messages from people upset about that phrase. I got used to explaining the facts behind it. I had been explaining it much of my life, got lots of experience during the 2014 unaccompanied minor crisis, the 2016 Hacienda debacle, etc. 

Last night I realized I’m a little rusty. 

Watching someone confront Juan was different than fielding angry phone calls at my desk. I spoke up, but not as clearly as I wish I had.

So this morning I want to share the points I wish I had calmly walked through.

1. Undocumented immigrants do pay taxes

The idea that undocumented immigrants are “stealing tax dollars” is simply false.

Undocumented immigrants pay sales taxes every time they buy something, property taxes through rent or homeownership, and pay income taxes.

Billions of dollars are paid into federal, state, and local governments every year by undocumented workers. Facts, google them. 

So the claim that immigrants don’t contribute to the system just doesn’t hold up. But guess who is not paying their fair share of taxes... rich people. 

2. Undocumented immigrants are largely barred from public benefits

Another common claim is that undocumented immigrants are draining government programs.

But federal law largely prevents that.

Undocumented immigrants are generally prohibited from accessing major federal benefits like Medicare, Medicaid, SNAP, most housing programs, etc. 

In many cases they are paying into systems they cannot even use. However, guess who is using those systems to enrich themselves.... rich people. 

3. Immigrants strengthen economies

The final myth is that immigrants are a drain on the economy.

Across the Midwest, the opposite is true.

Immigrant communities help drive economic growth. They start businesses, fill critical labor shortages, and stabilize neighborhoods in places that are otherwise losing population.

Cities like South Bend don’t lose because immigrants arrive. In many cases, communities like ours survive because they do.

Do you want to know what hurts South Bend's economy? You might guess, but yeah, rich people, who took their money and moved to Granger, generally because of racism. 

The bigger point

The phrase “No Human Being is Illegal” was never just about policy arguments.

It was about refusing to reduce people to a label.

Actions can be illegal.
Human beings cannot be.

And the people who walk through the doors of La Casa de Amistad every day are local families, workers, kids, our neighbors, and make this world a better place. 

Human beings.

Last night I wish I had said those things more clearly. It's not immigrants (regardless of status) that take money from others, its rich people. He should be mad at the rich people, his pastor, politicians, who have convinced him to be mad at undocumented immigrants and cause a scene, while they pilfer in the background. 

Maybe next time I will.

10.07.2024

Folding Polos and New Chapters


Well September 2024 a lot of things wrapped up for me... weirdly for years now September has been a big transition month. This year was no exception, let's walk through them all. Little reflection on change and transition at the end. 

Empowerment Zone
Five years ago I embarked on the path of getting more involved in our public schools. I was asked to serve on the board of an independent non-profit board to oversee five schools that surrounded La Casa de Amistad in our district. I was honored to be asked by leadership in the Indiana Department of Education to take the role. We had lots of ups and downs, our first two years were heavily impacted by the pandemic, hard to create organizational and transformative change during a pandemic... but we innovated, we tried new things, we had successes, and of course some set backs and ultimately we even got an extension of our MOU with the district and state. 

I was appointed the chair at the onset, and served in that role until we recently voted to fold back into our school corporation. I honestly was sad to see it end, we had momentum rolling, dynamic leadership and initiatives... but changes to budgets and operational transitions just made it better for us to merge back with the corporation (News Article). Public schools in Indiana, and nationally, are at a major crossroads and I am not done being an advocate for change and improvement in our public schools. 

Street Survival
In 2008 I moved to South Bend and volunteered with the SCCA for a Tire Rack Street Survival school... I got to coach a student at my first one, and the following year they asked if I would become the chair of the local schools run by my club. I agreed, and it brought me a ton of satisfaction. I didn't get to coach anymore, but I loved running the program, talking to parents, recruiting coaches, and helping students. I was the 2017 Volunteer of the Year for the national program, and in 2018 was inducted into the BMW Car Club of America (they were the major sponsor) Circle of Excellence. I am one of few non-BMW owners in that circle. 

I got to meet the one and only Pete Veldman through the program. It was before I did fundraising, and he was truly a special man. I wrote a blog about it, The American Dream, and I got to work with his family on philanthropy for La Casa and through the Tire Rack on this program. Interestingly I had been wanting someone else from the club to take over being the chair in 2019... I had done it for ten years and thought time to pass on the baton. Well then pandemic hit, and until this year nothing pressured me, or the club to change leaders. My OWI a few years I know makes people question if I can/should be running a driving school... so I am stepping back and going to take a full break from the program for a while. 

IU South Bend
I moved to South Bend to work at IUSB in 2008. I worked there for four pretty transformative years in my life and fell in love with the community. I especially enjoyed the connection to the Latino Student Union, Sr. Cynthia, and those who got me roped in with the local Latino community. I developed my "Abuelitas Hands" lecture there, which I got to do a couple small tours speaking and presenting that around the country.. might dust that off again soon. It ultimately ended up leading to the job at La Casa de Amistad that changed my career trajectory. 

I was asked by the previous Chancellor to serve on the campus advisory board, AKA like their board of directors. It was a huge honor, as it was mostly major elected officials, mayors, and CEOs of large local companies. I blogged about that first meeting (Pumpkin Pie Titan). I served diligently, chaired a few committees, and in September I was at my max term limit for board members. So without much fan fair I rolled off the board. 

FOLDING POLOS
Shirts and things I use often are on hangers and ready to go. I had a couple SBEZ shirts/polos that I work for every meeting. Our meetings were public and we were often on TV. The Street Survival polo was the uniform we wore when volunteering so that will get folded and stored up. I will still wear my IUSB Fleece... that was a gift from the chancellor and as the fall weather sets in I'll wear that again soon. Always repping the Titans! 

So why am I writing all this... not sure, maybe just journalling my life. Also maybe sharing for others going through change that I feel you, its hard, doing something for ten years, you can't just walk away. You can't just fold up the polo and forget about it. Maybe I should donate the polos, but its nice once a while when go through bins to find an old shirt that reminds me an event, a program, and reminisce. 

I think having a ceremonial way to transition is important, create some closure. So maybe folding the polos and putting them away will help me move to the new chapter in life. 

While I will enjoying have three less things to worry about scheduling into my life, I will cherish the times I spent working on those and cheer others in those roles to future success. 

So here is to new opportunity, new adventures, and maybe a new polo shirt for the shelf. 

3.22.2024

La Casa Battleship Engineer

People ask me a lot; do I miss working at La Casa, why did I leave, am I proud of what they have accomplished (with each new big announcement)?

Posted two blogs, this one as I reflected on my path and journey with La Casa. The struggles the successes, and I thought I would document and organize a little around what it was like and why I thought it was the right thing to do to leave. I posted Million Dollar Admiral first on social media, and saved this one to share later. Here goes...

In early 2013 a friend suggested I go work at La Casa de Amistad. They were hiring a new director, I had volunteered there and loved the mission, but I was not sure I was the right fit. I had worked the previous 11 years in higher education, in undergrad I studied engineering, and I knew very little about being an Executive Director. 

I applied. 

During the application process I was clear about my skills, things I do well, but also things I don't do well or at least didn't have experience in doing. During the interview, on a tour of the building, the president of the board while squeezing around corners, stepping over supplies, ducking below pipes in the basement teen space... told me that some day they want to expand the center. No plan on when, but that is what got me excited, I love a project. 

My favorite photo outside of the old center. 
I made the final round, and I started my time discerning and doing research on if I thought I was the right person for the job. I researched other similar centers, I reached out to people with non-profit experience (both local and around the country), and said, I can do this, and we can build a new center, the center this organization, and the community deserves. 

The job was a massive pay-cut, I refinanced my house to afford the mortgage, I started doing more consulting and speaking, and I put the Z in storage as I knew I wouldn't have money to finish getting her ready to race (Me and My Z)... 

As background, I am engineer by education, love cars, and worked briefly in my childhood dream as an automotive design engineer. Luckily it didn't stick, but I nicknamed the new building our battleship during the process. I thought of the design, the input, the outputs, the campaign and the fundraising as building a battleship. Sometimes the work felt as heavy as trying to lift one. 

I won't go into the all the details of my work there, our campaign, why I loved it, but I can reference a few milestones that I did blog about here (click links later if you have time, quick overviews below): 

Labor of Love (2013)
My blog announcing my job... Novalí holding the paper and me proud to talk about the announcement making it into TWO news articles... start of a trend. 

I sat between Two Giants (2013)
About sitting a local rally, between two long time Latino community leaders. One namely Gregorio Chavez, my dear dear friend, who a year later I played a part in his induction into the South Bend Hall of Fame and who I miss, and this community missed and we will never be the same without him. 

Walk with Father Jenkins
Many, many, many leaders came alongside this work. I wrote this when I got to chat with Father Jenkins (ND President) one on one, and a few months ago I did the same with Father Dowd the incoming president. I have been blessed with leaders and people I got to meet because of this job, from Dolores Huerta to Greg Chavez, from Anderson Cooper to Lou Nanni (ND Development)... the people who came alongside my work humbled me and lifted me up. 

No Longer the New Guy (2014)
Two years in... and you can feel my inspiration knowing we were on the path to success. Also one of my favorite pictures of Cruz with his Yo Puedo Leer classmates. I said click these later, but for real click this one and check out my dude now quick...

One Million for La Casa (2016)
It took my first three years to raise over a million dollars... with annual budget of $300k when I started, it was a process to grow. I knew we couldn't have a successful campaign without growing the organization naturally and sustainably. 

Not Just About Tacos Sometimes (2017)
When my dear friends at Taqueria Chicago were a finalist for Taco Wars. I was reminded of some of my roots in doing my current job. I have been working with minority owned businesses and advocating for their success well before I joined CDFI Friendly

I am that Latino, but I am not that Latino 
I wrote a few blog posts, The Quechua Gringo and others, as I reflected and grew into better and fuller and prouder thoughts on my Latinidad. 

I Can't Dance (2019)
Blog about being in the cast of In The Heights... one of the more fun, and very big stretch for me, that was caused by my connection to community and wanting to be a good role model for others on doing hard things. I did it. 

I Am Sorry 
The blog I never posted. I was not sure if it would help. I wanted to apologize for things I did wrong, to ask for forgiveness, to ensure that my mistakes didn't make my family, or my work, look bad. Edit: I now talk more publicly about my OWI and it has been freeing for me. There is a demand for leaders to be perfect, it is stressful, I didn't want my mistakes to hurt La Casa. I kept it in, went about my grind, and after that I didn't blog much. 

WHEW... OKAY... 

If you are ever bored, go to my blog and search for Amistad, Chavez, La Casa, or Latino and find some fun reflections. I always say I need to get back to writing more and I keep wanting to and as you all know I have a lot to say... just often no time to document it. 

So again where was this blog going? It started as a set up to congratulating Juan and La Casa, but kinda turned into a trip down memory lane. So I made two blogs. 

This part of the story is missing on my timeline and in blogs. I stopped doing media interviews, I stopped posting, and I focused the attention away from me in 2019. I knew I would be transitioning in a year or two, and I went more behind the scenes. I left just before the official ribbon cutting, and it was hard not speaking at the ribbon cutting, hard not being in a staff picture while receiving their latest big grant... but it is what was best for the organization, and I was right, look at them! 

Check the other blog, I left because my work there was done, the next phase, would be better served by someone else. Like I tell people, La Casa hired an engineer to design and build the battleship, and then they needed an admiral to drive it around... they found that admiral in Juan Constantino. Read that blog here.

Thank you to the people who still sending me notes of appreciation, and a great donor friend who emailed me congratulating me... but honestly it was just so many people made this work possible, it was my blessing to help design and be a cog in the machine that built the battleship. 

Like the quote says, "If you love something, set it free." It has never left me, just is in my life in another way, and is flourishing more than I ever imaged. 

I am still a part of it, and always will be.