No Kings Rally. June 14th, 2025.
I went.
I have not gone to a "rally" in I can't remember how long... honestly since maybe when it felt like a part of my job at La Casa de Amistad.
I'll tell you why I usually don't go to them... they feel often like a performance. Like a, "hey look at me, I believe these things", well, err, at a minimum saying, "Hey look at me, I want you to think I believe these things."
I got jaded, honestly still kinda am, and was always disappointed in the follow through, follow up, and true actions of myself and many of the people who attend rallies. When it came time to help register people to vote, only a handful of LWV members (I love them!) and Greg Chavez (he was the best)... pounding pavement. When it came time to actually speak out again racism, to push against structural issues in our world that cause the problems we often protest... often crickets.
Everyone wants to cheer at a rally, hold a funny sign, and post a social media video while standing in the middle of the street. When it comes time to do the work though... less people show and sacrifice to create the change.
I thought about not going. I thought about my struggles with feeling like a hypocrite...
Who hold signs but don't donate to causes,
Who say abolish ICE, but can't drive to the westside to buy groceries,
Who march up and down chanting but won't volunteer,
Who have Black Lives Matter stickers, but drive their kids to all white schools.
I went.
For sure not for the speeches... cause honestly most of them are just saying things to get cheers. Normally no one at a rally gets their mind changed, no Trump support listened and said, "wow that is a good point, I better take off this hat." When I spoke at those back in the day I would always tell people things to do to help. Like if you want to make this better, spend money on the westside, stop sending your kids to all white schools, donate to non-profits until it hurts. Are we more focused on padding our 401k than we are on supporting causes that matter?
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I went.
Glad I was there for the kid, you maybe saw as well, walking around the place alone, with a pride flag and dyed hair, quiet and walking loops. They needed us there, so did some of the young immigrant kids, whose parents hear slurs often and are discriminated upon regularly... to feel welcomed. I think about the young black kid who walked by a sign that says racism is wrong. To know the discrimination they will face growing up is not their fault, that it is wrong, and that we are working on it.
I really want less rallies and more people actively doing the things that are going to make the world a better place. Rallies don't change things, things change when you change and push others to change. What do I mean? Doing things like this:
Shop at a Mexican grocery store.
Read about the economic oppression of black neighborhoods and what we can do about it.
Buy shampoo and brushes from a black-owned beauty supply store.
Volunteer in a program that supports low-income, minority, and/or immigrant communities.
Call out friends (or anyone) when they say something racist.
Donate to a cause/place that is actively involved in fighting racism, oppression, and that is helping to empower others.
I went.
It was for my kids honestly. I am not great about talking to them about these things, I assume they know how I feel, and what I think is important, but and it was a good opportunity to share with them. Not just that people don't like Trump's orange skin and hair, but that his policies are terrible and racist. That the people he appoints and promotes are not qualified, his policies are mega bias, and that racism is wrong.
I am not rejuvenated, maybe more worried than ever, but hopeful. I am feeling, what can I do now? That is what I walked away from Saturday thinking. It is not enough to just try and teach my kids right, but how do we do more, how do we harness rally energy regularly, monthly, how do we advance causes that matter? How will do you do it? How will we all do more than just rally, how will do fix it all?
I went. The following day, I went with the kids to Rosales Market to grocery shop, we got ice cream at La Rosita. It's something, it's a start. What are you doing differently now?
I went. Glad I went. Now where do we go next?