Holidays are over...
Well it was a great two weeks! I had Novali for 11 days and had a fantastic time. Spent a week in Chicago and shopped, visited with friends, shopped, and hung out with Novali. I spent Christmas in Chicago with the Gomez family and that was nice and relaxing. Andy flew into Chicago on December 27th and Novali and I picked him up and then drove to Albion. The following day we rolled to Gladwin to see my folks.

We had a great time at the lake. It meant sleeping in, or at least trying to with Novali waking up early. We relaxed, made trips to the store, did some ice skating, opened lots of presents and just had a good time with family relaxing and hanging out. Raquel came up with the girls and Dennis and we just enjoyed talking and hanging out. Novali and Valerie were really able to play together a lot, even with the extremely different energy levels!

I got to spend New Years in Bad Axe with Heather and Greg. We lounged, ate at Big Boy and just relaxed and rang in the near year on the sectional. I was looking at cars online and dreading the end of break and the fighting the weird desire people have to dream of great resolutions.

Below are a few pics from the holiday break. I posted a full gallery on Novalis website: Novi's Pics

Here are pics from the mosaic table Novali and I made:


Another project over break was building a bookshelf in her room:


In Gladwin we spent time with the Centellas family. Everyone was there but Miguel and Kate. The girls got tons of gifts!


Grandma planned a trip to take the girls skating. Valerie got frustrated, Novali went really slow but finally picked it up a little. It was a lot of fun.


After Novali's success at skating... we thought maybe she would like watching some hockey. She was slow to catch the game... but she loved the snacks.


Valerie's birthday in Jan 3rd. Everyone had to be back to work then, so we planned a birthday party for the 1st... unfortunately she caught the flu! Party was canceled...


Its sad that break is over. On the 2nd my parents drove out to Philly area with Andres and I took Novali back to Tamara. On the 3rd I had to be back to work and life would be back to some type of normalcy. This weekend my parents flew back to Bolivia (I still have not heard from them). We are working on plans for their next trip... and the potential for the first big Centellas gathering in Santa Cruz, possibly next Christmas. As we get older it is harder and harder for all of us to be together in one place... especially with us living in four different states and two countries.

Here's to the next Centellas Christmas Spectacular... and to hoping we can all be there.

The Traveler
This past weekend Heather and I went to Gladwin on Saturday. We met up with my Uncle Ed, Aunt Cyndi and my parents. We had dinner and it was a great time to catch up. During dinner the subject of points came up... (my family is big on collecting points, Speedway, Hilton, Best Buy, etc.). My uncle asked me about how many nights a year I spend in hotels. Off the top of my head I said maybe about 30 nights per year.

The following day we went to Saginaw and visited with my sister and her new baby Ayanna. Went to church with my folks and had a nice family dinner where my Uncle Bob and Aunt Genie joined us for some delicious Lone Star. Man I love steak... Anyhow the Saturday convo got me thinking... how many nights per year do I spend in hotel rooms? More importantly... how many nights do I not spend at home?

Well I did a quick look through my planner and realized in 2006 I spent about 60 nights in a hotel! So I tried to make a rough count of days spent in Chicago visiting Novali... not double counting business trips to Chicago that I stayed extra, I had nearly 50 additional days gone to Chicago. Then I looked through my planner and thought about weekend trips to visit friends and/or family and that was around 25 days. So if you total that up in 2006 (I did count my projected time up until New Years) I spent nearly 135 days on the road! That is more then 1/3 of my year, so 1 in every three days I do not spend at home.

Wow. So when I blog about being on the road again... really I am just back to doing what I do best and most often... So like I always say....

"Thats what I do."

Big Wedding
This past weekend was Miguel's wedding. It was a great weekend... Andres and I were in the wedding, Novali was a flower girl, and everyone had a great time in downtown Chicago.

The weekend started poorly for me. My flight to Chicago was canceled and all flights grounded into town... I was so distraught that I might miss my Brothers rehearsal dinner that I nearly started crying. Seriously it was that bad. I luckily was able to land a flight into Midway on another airline and had to get a one way ticket... after a fun cab ride to Ohare from Midway... getting lost in Des Plaines... I made it to Evanston for the dinner. Relieved to be with family, I ate and just had a great night.

At the wedding Novali was a doll, Kate was beautiful, and us Centellas boys looked dapper in our tuxes, and my mom had a sweet hat (and Novali complimented her on her jacket). We had a great time and my dad made an awesome toast! Little teary again.... maybe. Then we ate, drank and danced the night away! Novali was a terror on the dance floor and I think danced with everyone in the wedding party. She was the life of the party and I think half the reception video might be of her... hope she didn't steal the show.

Sunday we had a great brunch and packed up. My parents and Heather and I went to lunch with Novali, Syed and Tamara before hitting the road to Michigan. Hit some snow on the way home but made it back to Albion safely. I hate to make this short, but I have been out of my office for nearly two weeks and have a ton of work to do. I did find some time to post two new galleries on Novali's website.
Please check them out in her Pictures Section. Novalí's Site.

Today my parents arrive for a three day visit in Albion. I am looking forward to spending more time with them since we were so busy at the wedding. The students leave town this weekend and then I get a break for a little while and can catch up on paperwork and reports... fun fun fun.

Novali Vacation
So this is the longest amount of time I spent with Novali in a while! I came on Thursday morning and stayed until Tuesday afternoon. Not only was it a lot of time in a row, but no school, no work, no places to go... nothing but hanging out! We watched movies, went shopping on Black Friday, played at the park, went to the emergency room, read together, and tried on shoes for the wedding. Wow... I am tired just thinking about all of that! Needless to say there are some funny Novi stories in this long weekend. Here are a few highlights:

Toys 4 Tots
On Black Friday I took Novali shopping. We went to Kmart and I wanted her to pick out a gift for Toys For Tots. The night before we talked about it and what it means to give to others. She related it to a can drive her school did for Thanksgiving. Wow, they are teaching kids early these days about service. I told her we would not buy her anything since she would get presents for Christmas, but that we would buy something for someone who might not be getting anything. She said it was a nice thing to do as we walked into the store. In the store it was a little harder, she kept asking, "Can I get that... or this...", but she did not carry on or beg... she picked out two nice toys and we took them to the service counter. After we paid for them, I told her how proud I was of her and how nice of a thing it was. Her reply... "Can I get some pizza?" I said yes... she said, "With Crazy Bread?" I said "Yes, and I will even get the sauce", she said, "I don't like the sauce."

It was great. We sat and ate in KMart and talked about the toys she wanted for Christmas. Then later at Circuit City they had a Toys 4 Tots booth set up. As we are walking out Novi stops me... I think we should give for these kids to right? How can I say no? Another $10 out of my pocket and we headed home.

Movies and Macy's
Saturday we went see the movie Flushed Away. The movie was a little over her head, and at times scary. Half way through the movie she stood up, looked at me and said, "I don't like this movie, lets go home now." The funny look in her eye nearly made me crack up, I asked her to give it a second chance. She waited through the movie, and as we walked out she said, "I should picked the other movie." We left the theatre and walked next door to Macy's. One of the missions for the weekend was to get her wedding shoes. Man finding white shoes in Chicago in November is not easy.

Well in Macy's we hit the jackpot. They had a display pair on clearance, it was her size and a very cute off white pair of Kenneth Cole girls shoes with a little rose on them. She tried on the display and it was perfect... it was the only off white pair they had. Well guess what... they could not find the mate! Two different people looked. They kept asking us to white as they looked... NOTHING. When the last woman came to break the news to us for the third time that no one can find the shoe.... Novali told her, "How can you not have the other one?" It was not snobby or mean... very matter of fact. The lady apologized, and I think Novali's career in management just started.

I have problems
Sunday Novali awoke crying. The night before she had a slight nose bleed and complained after that her ear hurt. She took some medicine and went to sleep. Well in the morning it was worse and she was crying from the pain so Tamara and I took her to the emergency room. She has an ear infection... reminds me of when I used to have them all the time as a little boy. Must run in the family. Well on the drive home the topic of being good came up. Tamara asked Novali if she is always good for her papi, Novi said yes. So Tamara asked, "Why aren't you always good for me." Novi replied "I try, but sometimes I can't help it." Tamara asked "Why can't you help it?".... to which Novali responded, "Because I try and try, but sometimes I just have problems." Tamara and I cracked up... she said that because when she does act up Tamara asks her, "What's your problem?" Hence she internalizes it as when she is misbehaving she is having problems. Too funny...

Cheaters never win
Sunday night Novi was feeling better and after shopping all over for white shoes we went to the park. We played on the Tic-Tac-Toe board. Well Novali was cheating and taking more turns. I told her that she was cheating. She said she wasn't, but I told her that not letting me take my turn was not fair. She said, "Well it might not be fair, but its not cheating." I asked her what's the difference, she replied, "Not everything is fair, I didn't win because I was cheating." Such the young philosopher.

School
Monday I took her to school. It meant I had to get up horribly early. Its been a while since I had to be up that early, I can't believe that when I worked at JCI in Holland I was at work each day before 7:15am. How did I do that! Anyhow... back to Novi's school... I got to meet her teacher, and see all the other little kids in their uniforms. It was really cute and her teacher was great. After school I was outside waiting for her and she ran out, waving bye to her friends and asked to go to the park. So of course we went. We played, ran around, pretended to be on a pirate ship, and watched a big Dalmatian chase a little squirrel.

It was a great time! Tuesday I took her to school again and then I packed and went to the airport. I had a great time in Chicago as always. Now I am in New Orleans and I have back to back business meetings for the next 48 hours. Tonight I got to relax on Bourbon street and now its back to work. Its been a good week so far, and to top it off I finally got my new phone... and this post is brought to you by my new Treo 700p. I finally got a Palm Pilot Phone... its been five years in the making! I can't believe I was this patient. CIAO!

Thanksgiving
Wow... its been nearly a month since my last post. I really fell behind. Its been a busy couple of weeks. I spent the first two weeks of November dealing with my insurance company. Luckily everything from my car theft was covered, even a rental car to get around with while my car was in the shop.

Work is finally starting to slow down... so what does that mean? I start working on more consulting work, yep... life never slows down for this guy. I have a few new projects I am working on and some exciting programs coming up.

November 7th was a big day in Michigan. The voters passed a proposal to eliminate affirmative action, we re-elected a governor who clearly has done a poor job, and Heather got one year older. We went to a fancy dinner in Jackson and enjoyed some random political celebrations, wine, and a just time to be out and relax.

Yesterday my parents returned from Bolivia. I am glad they made it back without problems. The political situation down there is less then stellar again. We will have a fun holiday season traveling around and seeing each other and catching up with my family.

Tomorrow I head to Chicago for Thanksgiving. I will be in Chicago until Tuesday when I head to New Orleans for a conference. Then next Friday I fly back to Chicago for my Brothers wedding. Its going to be a busy travel time (nothing new for me) and some fun family get together. I am really looking forward to Miguel's wedding... the first of us to get married. Kinda crazy... we are all grown up now.

Hopefully during this 10 days of non-stop traveling I will find some time to post again. I need to get some new photos up. Keep checking back... I will be updating this again soon.

HAPPY THANKSGIVING!

NO!
Well it finally happened... the thing that would push me over the top and want to leave Albion. I can put up with a town with only two good places to eat, where everyone knows your business, that doesn't have anything open 24/7 (except McDs), and that doesn't have a good shop that I trust to take my car to... so what has pushed me over the edge?

I went to Grand Rapids this weekend... which reminded why I like living in a city with nightlife, culture, great food, lots of friends, different places to visit, not one but two malls and a TJ Max. Its great! Hermen was in town, I took him, Erin and Heather to San Chez for awesome Tapas... we went to a costume party... good times!

On Sunday morning I get a voicemail from Albion College Campus Safety and an email... my car got broken into over the weekend. They were not sure on the extent of the damage or theft since they didn't know what I had in the car. I got back to Albion and sure enough... they took everything! Well except my burned CDs and cheap sunglasses. They took my faceplate and my speakers, which during dinner tonight I did a rough estimate and total damages are going to easily be over $1000. Man I hope my insurance covers some of this... I am so mad.

My broken window... glass everywhere!

My empty trunk... many of you will remember all the posts of my car work on getting my system set up just the way I liked it.

Here is the real burn. Above my car... is a security camera... my car is parked 25 feet from the main entrance to a well lit building... guess what? Good lord... they broke out my side window and there is glass all over the place! They ripped all the wires in my trunk connected to my speaker system. What sucks the most is... knowing that someone targeted my car. Someone must of seen me around town, with a nice radio and figured they could take my stuff. Well they took my stuff... and there is nothing I can do about it. Why can't I do anything about it... cause that freaking security camera does not work. Booya!

Under Motivated and Over Caffeinated
Alright folks... so for the past two years I have really struggled to get motivated. I am still working a lot, and holding some different leadership roles, and doing well at Albion and with my fraternity roles. However, I have felt that I am just not doing the same type of things that I used to do and really getting involved in making a difference and a change.

Well as I wrote about before... I was involved in a key group of Brothers in my fraternity this year. Five Brothers came together to brainstorm what we thought the perfect future of our fraternity would look like, and what operational changes needed to be made in order to actualize those dreams. Well we created a document we called Proposition 86. It was a revolutionary document, and many Brothers said it would be impossible to 1. Get voted in by our House of Delegates, 2. Create simples steps for reaching the goal, and 3. A final actualization of the plan. Well this summer along with getting passed 52-1... and me getting elected to my International Board of Directors (IBOD) meant we were well on our way.

This fall has been a slow start for me... back to the under motivated part. I have just struggled to get into a big project and really move it forward. Its been on my mind a lot and my attention spam is shrinking as I am getting older, either that or something is lacking. What is it? Then this weekend came up... my IBOD had a retreat in Galena, IL. Now I am ready to roll!

We went to this small resort town in Northwestern Illinois. It was a small town with vineyards, golf, skiing (in the winter), water sports... very nice. We rented a big house there for the 10 of us and had a retreat. We spent time bonding, drinking, playing poker (I won money!), and of course meeting and talking about the fraternity and its future.

I was drinking a lot of coffee over the weekend... thats the over caffeinated part. We stayed up until 2-3 AM each night talking about recruitment, hazing, ritual education, leadership training, scholarship, programming... the history of our fraternity. It was an exciting time and I feel confident this board is going to do great things. I will be leading a few major projects in the fraternity and I am very excited.

So hopefully I won't need that much caffeine in a long long time... and also that now I can get motivated to tackle some of these big projects. I am very excited right now for what the future holds.

Edit - Bonus of the trip is that I got to stop and eat with Novali on my way home. She has another loose tooth.

Scratch That, Winters Here!
So in my last post I said Fall is here... well we just skipped right over there and now its winter. This morning I awoke to snow on the ground. Fun fun fun. Actually, no not really. I did not put on my winter coat in protest.

Outside of my apartment this morning.

I bet it is 80 degrees in Santa Cruz.

Moving back in with my parents (who now live in Bolivia) never sounded so good. They even have a spare bedroom... I call dibs!

Fall is Here!
So by the end of the week Albion will of had its first snow of the year... yep its that time of the year. BOO!

Speaking of Boo... its that time of the year as well. Where as I have never been a big Halloween fan of course Novi is and I spent the weekend out there. We bought a costume and Novali will be Sleeping Beauty (Princess Aurora). We went to a little makeshift Fall Fest in Chicago. The hayride was pulled by a tow truck, the horse rides were on a basketball court, and the pumpkin patch was a fenced in area with small pumpkins thrown around. All in all a fair attempt to bring the country to the city... but just not the same.

There was a petting zoo at the Fall Fest.

Novi looked through the patch, and found her pumpkin.

They had some inflatable games, those were her favorite.

She climbed over and over again.

We had some fun working on some craft projects Heather sent along with me again. I also got to help her with some homework as well. We went to the mall and looked at winter coats and shoes for the wedding. She is getting excited for her role in Miguel's wedding. It was a fun little weekend.

Decorating her candy bucket.

Trick or Treat!

She is working on tying her shoes now.

Some of her homework from school.

Well this week is Homecoming at Albion, so I am busy with that... and it is also Homecoming at WMU so I am trying to get over there as well to see some folks. Not too busy, just a lot of places that I want to be...

Novi Time
I hadn't seen Novi in three weeks... and hadn't talk to her in nearly two weeks. Each time I call they aren't home... busy time of year for everyone. So this weekend I went to Chicago. I arrived late on Friday night. I had to pack for my trip to Ohio University on Monday (I am driving straight from Chicago there) and then the horrible rain storm slowed down my a lot. I got there and she was sleeping at her Abuela's house. I picked her up to take her home... as she was walking up for me to take her to the car... she told me... "Papi, I learned how to read... finally." For those who keep up on my blog you will get the joke (if not read two posts below).

Saturday we played in the morning, she spelled words on my computer and watched some Sponge Bob. Then we got ready for a birthday party of Novi's friend Carissa. Tamara and I are friends with Carissa's parents (one of Tamara's sorority sisters and one of my frat Brothers). I took Novali because Tamara had class and was not able to go.

The Clown's "business card" was a picture with her number on it for kids to color and take home. Clever.

The clown at the party was great! This was Novi's balloon animal.

Novi got her face painted and a tatoo on her hand. She was mad that she was not picked to be a volunteer for the magic show. She got over it and enjoyed her hot dog and small glass of sprite.

Saturday night we worked on a light catcher. Heather bought the craft for Novi to do as a birthday present for Tamara (on Sunday). We got to work on that, and I got to enjoy how compulsive Novi is when working on projects. Everything had to be exactly perfect. Each grain of the plastic had to be in the right place. I was surprised though when she picked her own pattern for colors and not the paint by numbers they have on the box. I was more impressed though... when doing the second bug that she noticed that the color she picked would not be enough to do both sides of the wings, so she picked another color. Wow... I probly wouldn't of noticed that until half way through the project.

All set up and ready to roll.

It took two hours... grain by grain...

Bug number 2... grain by grain...

All done!

I think she really understood the concept of the plastic melting in the oven into glass (or glasslike). It was a fun project. Novi would surprize her mother in the morning with it.

Sunday was Tamara's birthday. Un benounced to me (I was still sleeping) Novi woke up and went into her Mother's room to surprise her with the gift. It's funny that I am sure it was the first thing on her mind to get up and give her mom the present. Kinda like when she yelled happy birthday to wake me up a few weeks ago. Tamara opened some gifts and we had a late breakfast that Syed prepared. Then I hit the road...

Monday I was speaking at Ohio University in Athens, OH. So I decided that on Sunday I would drive to Columbus, OH for the night. It was a nice 7 hour drive... ouch... but I got to a nice comfy hotel and prepared for my following days presentations. So Monday I awoke in Columbus and drove an hour and half to Athens. Wow it was a beautiful campus! Founded in 1804 it is an old school with lots of tradition. I was there to give a Hazing lecture to kick of their programs for National Hazing Prevention Week. I was more excited about the consulting I was hired to do working with their multicultural Greeks in starting a new council there. One more experience for OutSight Consulting.

Monday after the presentation I drove to Findlay, OH to spend the night. Another comfy hotel, some time spent in the hot tub before bed was just what I needed. This morning I woke up at 6:30am and drove to Albion for work. It was a lt of driving this weekend, and a lot of fun...

Common weekend site... coffee cup and my Siruis radio tunes.

4 days... nearly 1100 miles.

Back in Albion... well for a few days at least. FYI, new photos on Novi's page: Novi's Pics