New Year. New Opportunities. New Focus.

Well I have blogged before about the fact that I don't make New Year's Resolutions (New Years Resolve). I have always used the time to reflect on my year, and most importantly prepare for the future. So no 2015 resolutions, lots of 2014 to celebrate, and more to think about for 2015.

So what did 2014 bring me...

It was my first full year in my new position at La Casa de Amistad... boy has that been an adventure. I have learned so much this year, about my community, about those who care, and those who don't... but most importantly I learned a lot about myself. I learned that this old goat can still learn some new tricks. I learned that I can still work a 13 hour day, but the day after is rougher than I remember. I learned that leading with your heart on your sleeves leaves you spent at the end of the day, but satisfied with the outcomes. I can tease you now and say that while 2014 was good for La Casa... our 2015 will be bigger than ever... new programs, expanding programs and making a bigger impact in the community.

I had another child this year... little Marisa Hope was born on Feb 15th. She waited for me to get back from Chicago on a cold Friday evening drive. I had forgotten how hard a new born is, I was reminded how awesome D is and great with the kiddos. I learned that my time away from home is more valuable now, and yes I put a dollar figure on it (sorry I can't come speak on your campus for free). So I stay closer to home more now, and love that my full-time job keeps me close by.

It was a banner year for OutSight Consulting and my speaking career. I had not realized how good of a rep I had, but this year I had as many rebookings as I had new clients and if that continues I won't need many more new clients. I can narrow in and help targeted groups, and be selective about helping places where I know I can make impact. So far 2015 is off to a good start with a handful of bookings already.

I was reminded of the importance of family. When I got the call that Dave passed, it was a shock, and then the strength, and importance of family slapped me in the face. In South Bend we are far from family, and tend to only see family on special occasions. It reminded me that we need to hit the road more often, facetime when we can, and keep lines of communication tight.

So for 2015 my focus will be on trying to be home more, working on high impact projects and trying to let go of all the small things. Politics, arguments and other distractions need to get cut out so I can be efficient, effective and then come home to play with my kids. I teach in my lectures that to leave a positive legacy you need to focus on the big impact items... I need to listen to myself here and do as I say... #WhatsYourLegacy

With my new focus I am looking forward to Cruz being big enough to help me with flowers this spring, to watching Mari run around the backyard, and helping Novali make her decision on which high school to attend.... wish us luck...

Good luck to all in 2015, God Bless, and Happy New Year!