I know, I know... I get behind on posting pictures. Well this year the holidays snuck up on me, and then changing jobs and then we took so many pictures of Cruz that going through them all took time...
So here we are... two big albums (with four pages each) of pictures from December of Cruz. We cover everything from Christmas to his birthday, from visitors in South Bend to New Years Eve.
Enjoy!
December 2011 (1) - Busy Busy Boy
December was very busy for Mr. Cruz. We had lots of visitors for the holidays, he got new shoes and started in the toddler room and we made it up to Saginaw!
Visitors : SB Xmas : The Kicks : Saginaw
December 2011 (2) - Birthday!
The second album from December has some random pictures of Cruz as well as our time in Bad Axe and his Birthday!
Curious Cruz : BA Trip : Birthday! : ONE
2.06.2012
1.29.2012
Two Days Left

So top it all off... I am still trying to wrap up work at IU South Bend. I officially only have two days left of full time employment. Wow... it will be weird because I am not leaving, not moving away, and even more so I am still going to be teaching at IUSB so I will still be part of the family there!
Well this past week it was mixed emotions; the phone calls to wish me well, the emails from students... and on the flip the no fun of sorting my papers, cleaning my desk and remembering which books were mine on the bookshelf. Plus I can't find my rubix cube... who took it?
Some of my highlights were when a professor called, and told me that in his 30 years at IUSB he never saw anyone do so many great things. Wow... and the honor of coming back from lunch to an AMAZING surprise party thrown for me by the Students Government and my staff. Then of course the humbling speech given by Karen White about when I started and how much I will be missed. Then SGA said they are naming an award after me... I think that is a bit too much so I will be a kabash on that... too young for anything to be named after me (and too poor to buy something to be named after me).

It was a solid week... I hope Monday and Tuesday will squeak by and I can relax and finish cleaning my office out.

1.23.2012
One Week Left
Well I have one week left at Indiana University South Bend... It is bittersweet leaving. I am getting lots of thank you emails, congrats on the new job, we will miss you, and of course IUSB won't be the same without you. All those comments make it really hard to leave. In my four years here I was blessed to work with some great students, supportive staff and learned a lot about myself. I hope I have taught others as much as they have taught me, impacted lives and left an imprint and programs in place that will help students even after I have left and no one remembers what's his name... The one no one could say correctly... Yeah that guy.
I have been cleaning my office, writing instructions for all the things I did and trying to wrap up some projects. Its hard going through drawers and reading notes, reviewing old emails, and taking pictures off my wall and from around my computer. Packing up the coloring books I stocked for when I brought Novali to work and taking down all the post-it-notes she put around my office.
It has been approved that I will be hired as adjunct faculty to teach the Alternative Spring Break class trip to Virginia, so I won't be gone just yet... I also am going to help with the Feb 2nd launch of the new IU System MyInvolvement. It is sad that one of my major accomplishments will launch once I am gone... But I am glad I was able to be a part of such a great project.
So anyhow... The countdown is on... Wish me luck in cleaning out the rest of my office.
For those that asked, here is the article from the school paper: IUSB Preface
I have been cleaning my office, writing instructions for all the things I did and trying to wrap up some projects. Its hard going through drawers and reading notes, reviewing old emails, and taking pictures off my wall and from around my computer. Packing up the coloring books I stocked for when I brought Novali to work and taking down all the post-it-notes she put around my office.
It has been approved that I will be hired as adjunct faculty to teach the Alternative Spring Break class trip to Virginia, so I won't be gone just yet... I also am going to help with the Feb 2nd launch of the new IU System MyInvolvement. It is sad that one of my major accomplishments will launch once I am gone... But I am glad I was able to be a part of such a great project.
So anyhow... The countdown is on... Wish me luck in cleaning out the rest of my office.
For those that asked, here is the article from the school paper: IUSB Preface
1.12.2012
New Year. New Job.
Well the news is getting more and more public now, so I wanted to make it "Facebook Official" for the rest of the world. So here is some important news...
On February 1st, 2012 I will be starting a new job at Ivy Tech Community College. I will be the Director of Student Life, Development and Leadership for their North Central region. That means I will supervise staff on three campuses; South Bend, Elkhart and Warsaw. My main areas will include Career Services, Diversity Programming and of course Student Life (Clubs, Programs, Student Government, etc.). They have a growing program and I am excited to come in and help continue to build their programs.
It is a great professional move for me, and it doesn't require us to move... so we are staying right here in South Bend and will continue to be involved in our community. Professionally I will supervise a cross functional team on three campuses and am looking forward to that challenge. I also will be reaching out to all my professional contacts with community college experience to get ideas and for support during my learning transition to this new system.
Personally it is sad for me to leave a great team of staff and students behind. I have loved my time at Indiana University South Bend, and Novali is equally sad as she (and I have appreciated it) has grown accustomed to campus and is a well known by all my students and staff. She will continue to do basketball camp at IU in the summer though, so she is excited about that!
I have a busy month as I am wrapping up things here at IUSB, trying to pick our health benefits again (why is it so complicated!), and making sure I transition all my work projects successfully before I go. I hope to always consider myself part of the IUSB Titan Family and hope our inter-campus partnership continue to grow, I will just be on the other side of the table now.
Thank you to everyone who has supported me professionally... I have too many great mentors to list that have helped my career grow and flourish. Also thank you to Heather, who deals with my craziness and all the time I will be spending on this transition trying to learn new things, while wrapping up old projects.
Whew... news is public now, nice weight off my chest.
On February 1st, 2012 I will be starting a new job at Ivy Tech Community College. I will be the Director of Student Life, Development and Leadership for their North Central region. That means I will supervise staff on three campuses; South Bend, Elkhart and Warsaw. My main areas will include Career Services, Diversity Programming and of course Student Life (Clubs, Programs, Student Government, etc.). They have a growing program and I am excited to come in and help continue to build their programs.
It is a great professional move for me, and it doesn't require us to move... so we are staying right here in South Bend and will continue to be involved in our community. Professionally I will supervise a cross functional team on three campuses and am looking forward to that challenge. I also will be reaching out to all my professional contacts with community college experience to get ideas and for support during my learning transition to this new system.
Personally it is sad for me to leave a great team of staff and students behind. I have loved my time at Indiana University South Bend, and Novali is equally sad as she (and I have appreciated it) has grown accustomed to campus and is a well known by all my students and staff. She will continue to do basketball camp at IU in the summer though, so she is excited about that!
I have a busy month as I am wrapping up things here at IUSB, trying to pick our health benefits again (why is it so complicated!), and making sure I transition all my work projects successfully before I go. I hope to always consider myself part of the IUSB Titan Family and hope our inter-campus partnership continue to grow, I will just be on the other side of the table now.
Thank you to everyone who has supported me professionally... I have too many great mentors to list that have helped my career grow and flourish. Also thank you to Heather, who deals with my craziness and all the time I will be spending on this transition trying to learn new things, while wrapping up old projects.
Whew... news is public now, nice weight off my chest.
12.25.2011
Directions for Santa
It has always been tricky for Santa... Novali has two homes, and he has an annual dilemma of where to leave all of her presents. Being the great Claus that he is he always manages to leave presents for her in the right spots.
This year we threw Santa a curve ball... We decided not to have our 9 foot tall Christmas tree out because of Cruz. He tends to tear into everything in sight, and a tall indoor tree might be too much for him to bear not being able to touch. So we went treeless, but did end up getting a small 3 foot tree that Novali and I put on the writing desk in our foyer.
Novali helped hang the stockings, and pick out and light the little tree with me. She loves Christmas and helping Heather decorate the house.
Well then Novali thought what if Santa can't find the tree? What if he doesn't know where to put presents? I told her that he knows, but she brainstormed and thought she should love him directions. So she got a memo pad, some scotch tape and made signs from our fireplace into the foyer.... just in case.
The final post pointed to where presents would go. Then on Christmas Eve, her Christmas Elf Noah (Elf on the Shelf) came to the foyer and sat by the tree, taking note to tell Santa that evening where her presents would go...

And it worked! Merry Christmas!
This year we threw Santa a curve ball... We decided not to have our 9 foot tall Christmas tree out because of Cruz. He tends to tear into everything in sight, and a tall indoor tree might be too much for him to bear not being able to touch. So we went treeless, but did end up getting a small 3 foot tree that Novali and I put on the writing desk in our foyer.
Well then Novali thought what if Santa can't find the tree? What if he doesn't know where to put presents? I told her that he knows, but she brainstormed and thought she should love him directions. So she got a memo pad, some scotch tape and made signs from our fireplace into the foyer.... just in case.
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And it worked! Merry Christmas!
12.24.2011
Man Cave Christmas
The never ending saga of where to put kids toys is something I am sure alll parents struggle with at home. As soon as we clear out a space, he has it filled with more toys (grandparents love spoiling). A couple weeks ago Heather cleared out when of our built in cabinets below our TV. We stored a bunch of his boxes of toys and bigger items that fit in there.
Well true to form... Cruz went over, pulled everything out of it, and sat in side of it. He also liked closing the doors and sitting inside the cabinet in the dark. Heather called it his man cave... and then Novali had the idea that we needed to make it "more comfortable" for him. Well that turned into her Christmas present for her brother, she wanted to pimp out his man cave.
So Novali and made it our task to find things for his cave. We discussed wall paper, new flooring, installing lights in there... you know all the essentials that a man cave would need.
First thing we did was to prevent finger pinching we installed some handles on the inside of the cabinet doors. We re-used some old handles from our old windows I luckily saved this summer. We polished them and Novali used the power drill to install them (she is getting very handy).
So we cleaned the room up and did some upgrades. Novali wanted to tuck the cable line up in there so we hammered some clips in and then we fixed the cabinet hardware. Once it was all fixed up, we went shopping...
Novali is very creative... and thought of doing a stripe in his room and using duct tape (she loves duct tape). She picked a fun tie-dye duct tape and then picked fun colors items to go in his man cave. She picked a shaggy purple rug and a fun orange/red pillow for him. We added a little LED light in the ceiling and VOILA... New Man Cave for Christmas.
Merry Christmas Cruz!
Well true to form... Cruz went over, pulled everything out of it, and sat in side of it. He also liked closing the doors and sitting inside the cabinet in the dark. Heather called it his man cave... and then Novali had the idea that we needed to make it "more comfortable" for him. Well that turned into her Christmas present for her brother, she wanted to pimp out his man cave.
So Novali and made it our task to find things for his cave. We discussed wall paper, new flooring, installing lights in there... you know all the essentials that a man cave would need.
First thing we did was to prevent finger pinching we installed some handles on the inside of the cabinet doors. We re-used some old handles from our old windows I luckily saved this summer. We polished them and Novali used the power drill to install them (she is getting very handy).
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So we cleaned the room up and did some upgrades. Novali wanted to tuck the cable line up in there so we hammered some clips in and then we fixed the cabinet hardware. Once it was all fixed up, we went shopping...
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Merry Christmas Cruz!
12.04.2011
Buelos and Thanksgiving
I am way behind on my blog, yes I realize that all my blogs start with an apology about being late... well I guess this isn't an apology... ha.
Anyhow my parents arrived back in the states and came up to South Bend to visit for Thanksgiving. It was great to have them visit, and it was great timing because Novali had a week off school so I had her for the long break.
We had a lot of fun... its might not sound like fun, but she loves working with me around the house. Novali helped me build my new closet organizer in my room (Sorting Blog) and then helped me put the snow tires on the Jetta.
Novali and I spent time at my office, doing some shopping and errands and had a great time. Once my parents arrived even more fun kicked off. They brought Christmas presents since we might not get to see them before the holidays. So not only was it turkey time, Novali off school, but also presents... so needless to say the house was busy!
My parents are always excited to do fun stuff with their grandkids. Novali had just gotten her report card, so they went out to lunch to celebrate her straight As! They had fun keeping Cruz from daycare and spending all day with him at the house. Novali is a great help with Cruz as well and its fun having our house full of family.
We took the time to get some nice pictures with my parents and the grandkids. We got some nice shots and we will post more later.
Of course it was Thanksgiving... so Cruz had his first thanksgiving! He enjoyed a nice turkey leg (he at least held it so I could take a pic) and Novali enjoyed cooking (even though she doesn't like eating her green bean casserole). Glad my parents were able to enjoy that first holiday with Cruz and our family.
I have posted more pictures from the visit on Cruz's site: November 2011
Anyhow my parents arrived back in the states and came up to South Bend to visit for Thanksgiving. It was great to have them visit, and it was great timing because Novali had a week off school so I had her for the long break.
We had a lot of fun... its might not sound like fun, but she loves working with me around the house. Novali helped me build my new closet organizer in my room (Sorting Blog) and then helped me put the snow tires on the Jetta.
My parents are always excited to do fun stuff with their grandkids. Novali had just gotten her report card, so they went out to lunch to celebrate her straight As! They had fun keeping Cruz from daycare and spending all day with him at the house. Novali is a great help with Cruz as well and its fun having our house full of family.
We took the time to get some nice pictures with my parents and the grandkids. We got some nice shots and we will post more later.
11.26.2011
Sorting and Organizing
Lately life has been hectic... Work has been busy, fraternity board is hectic, volunteer work, and this little guy called Cruz takes up a lot of time. Well finally this week I got to relax a little. I had Novali all week, my parents came to visit and I took some time off work (plus the holiday time off).
One project that has been eluding me is organizing my closet and clothes. Luckily Novali likes helping me do work around the house so on our day home together we worked on building my new organizer. She was a great help and even used the power drill a little (later she helped me changed snow tires on Weather's car and used an impact wrench!). My dad helped wrap up the project when they arrived but I am glad I have more space for my stuff on my side of bedroom now. It also means I am clearing stuff from the closet in Novell's room and giving her more space... As she gets older she will need more and more room...
The project also helped me get through some organizing I have been needing to do. This year I have been trying to purge more clothes that don't fit and donate other things that I just don't need. Heather and I both have kept the local second hand stores stocked. I think this winter we will finally donate all the items we have been planning to sell in a garage sale... Which we now realize might never happen.
So my side of the room is a whole new place... Hopefully I can keep it that way!
One project that has been eluding me is organizing my closet and clothes. Luckily Novali likes helping me do work around the house so on our day home together we worked on building my new organizer. She was a great help and even used the power drill a little (later she helped me changed snow tires on Weather's car and used an impact wrench!). My dad helped wrap up the project when they arrived but I am glad I have more space for my stuff on my side of bedroom now. It also means I am clearing stuff from the closet in Novell's room and giving her more space... As she gets older she will need more and more room...


11.14.2011
Midnight Snack
This weekend was a lot of fun, but also a time that Mr. Cruz showed us more of his personality. He showed me a whole lot of Centellas this weekend so I thought I would recap.
Saturday we went to the mall... at the mall while in the kids play area he wanted to 1.) sit in the blue race car and 2.) chase girls all over. In the rest of the mall he enjoyed people watching and starred at everyone walking by us.
Later on that evening I cooked rice, not as good as my moms of course, but not too bad. It went along with some nice steaks that Heather got us. Yum... well Cruz showed his Centellas roots and smashed almost two bowls of rice! Which took a while with his tiny spoon, but he loved it.
Sunday Cruz enjoyed some yard work with me... well he was in his intellitainer... but he loved being outside and "helping" me do yard work. By helping I mean jumping up and down excited every time something made a loud noise. He wasn't happy that he didn't get to eat all the leaves though... maybe next year he can actually help me. I can teach him how zen doing yard work can be...
Sunday night he pulled out all the stops... he woke up at 11:30PM... hungry. He wouldn't go back to sleep so I took him downstairs and fed him. He destroyed two bowls of cereal, and then knocked out for the night. He needed a midnight snack...
For those who know my house growing up... an important family time was the midnight snack... and if you got there late... no left over ribs for you. During the day at the house we plan, oh save that for tonight...
So hopefully Cruz keeps that up, I will for sure be looking forward to midnight talks when he grows up over a plate of left over ribs, with a side of rice.
Saturday we went to the mall... at the mall while in the kids play area he wanted to 1.) sit in the blue race car and 2.) chase girls all over. In the rest of the mall he enjoyed people watching and starred at everyone walking by us.

Sunday Cruz enjoyed some yard work with me... well he was in his intellitainer... but he loved being outside and "helping" me do yard work. By helping I mean jumping up and down excited every time something made a loud noise. He wasn't happy that he didn't get to eat all the leaves though... maybe next year he can actually help me. I can teach him how zen doing yard work can be...
Sunday night he pulled out all the stops... he woke up at 11:30PM... hungry. He wouldn't go back to sleep so I took him downstairs and fed him. He destroyed two bowls of cereal, and then knocked out for the night. He needed a midnight snack...
For those who know my house growing up... an important family time was the midnight snack... and if you got there late... no left over ribs for you. During the day at the house we plan, oh save that for tonight...
So hopefully Cruz keeps that up, I will for sure be looking forward to midnight talks when he grows up over a plate of left over ribs, with a side of rice.
11.09.2011
Fall Back
Well fall is getting away from me... quickly. So what are the new updates and what is going on in my life?
A TON.
Luckily it is all great stuff! So lets get a quick fall 2011 recap:
Cruz - well he is 10 months old. Walks like a toddler, almost talking... and gets into everything. Really couldn't ask for more, well might be nice if he was potty trained...
Novali - she is doing well in school. Is running more and did a 5k at her school. That means she has done four of them this year! Awesome.
Heather - just had a birthday... one year older, a mom, enjoying work and balancing a crazy life schedule.
Me - where to start. Work is hectic, but good and lots of new things going on. In fraternity life my board is rolling on some major projects, doing some traveling and trying to enjoy my last year on my board. In consulting work, OutSight had a solid fall semester with four gigs which is about all my schedule could fit, and I am working with some folks on some exciting new opportunities. In my local involvements I have been appointed by the mayor of South Bend to a city committee. I am very excited about that, and have my first official meeting tomorrow!
Whew... so lots going on! Glad I got that fall back hour to help a little. This weekend I need to put snow tires on the Jetta and rake some leaves... wish me and my back, luck!
A TON.
Luckily it is all great stuff! So lets get a quick fall 2011 recap:
Cruz - well he is 10 months old. Walks like a toddler, almost talking... and gets into everything. Really couldn't ask for more, well might be nice if he was potty trained...
Novali - she is doing well in school. Is running more and did a 5k at her school. That means she has done four of them this year! Awesome.
Heather - just had a birthday... one year older, a mom, enjoying work and balancing a crazy life schedule.
Me - where to start. Work is hectic, but good and lots of new things going on. In fraternity life my board is rolling on some major projects, doing some traveling and trying to enjoy my last year on my board. In consulting work, OutSight had a solid fall semester with four gigs which is about all my schedule could fit, and I am working with some folks on some exciting new opportunities. In my local involvements I have been appointed by the mayor of South Bend to a city committee. I am very excited about that, and have my first official meeting tomorrow!
Whew... so lots going on! Glad I got that fall back hour to help a little. This weekend I need to put snow tires on the Jetta and rake some leaves... wish me and my back, luck!
10.23.2011
How Do You Get Frosty Off the Couch?
This weekend it was just Novali and I together. Heather and Cruz went to Michigan for a family event, I couldn't go because I had some work events and so it was a good chance for a fun daughter daddy weekend (working).
Novali constantly reminds me that I have the coolest job, which I must say is fairly accurate. She likes coming to work and so its not a bother when I need to bring her along. She has gotten to know so many people that I work with and knows our campus better than most students I know!
Friday night was the second annual LSU Night at the SAC. Novali was excited for the Day of the Dead dance, some Zumba, pizza and of course Señora Cynthia and the LSU crew. We got there around 10PM (yes I know past her bedtime), I got some work done for my events the next day and she hung out, shot pool, danced, and had a great time. The LSU event was from 9PM to 9AM... we couldn't stay all night, but we managed to survive until a little past midnight (yes I know, WAY past her bedtime).
Saturday we got up mega early to make it for the 7AM Zumba class taught by none other than Novali's favorite student Sineyda! She ran down to do Zumba while I set up for Make a Difference Day. This was the first time we did it at IU South Bend, and we combined with another first time event "Scholars Give Back Day" as well. We had over 70 students signed up and nearly 10 staff to do service!
Novali has been wanting to do service for the Center for the Homeless ever since we donated clothes at CFH. Since I had lots of coordinating to do, she tagged along with that group and luckily as always my great students helped keep an eye on her. She enjoyed the experience and to my surprise later we had a reflection time about what she did and what she learned... yep, me the Service Learning guy... who'da figured?
I shuttled vans, got people places, made sure people didn't get lost, and then because we were short volunteers I ended up at Southfield Village, a retirement community. We were scheduled for a "Pamper Day" and I was knee deep in chatting up the old ladies and even did some back rubs. I was not however asked to help with nail painting, probably better off anyways....
We wrapped up volunteering, lunch and then Novali and I went home around 3pm... to only take some short naps and turn around and come back at 5pm to help set up for the Hallopalooza at housing that evening. Novali brought her Dorothy costume from last year and required me to dig up something... short on time I just grabbed some of my racing stuff (helmet, jacket) and some patches that Novali stuck on my Nissan Zippy.
Novali enjoyed helping to wire up the lights. Her and Sara one of my staffers worked well together and maybe Novali has a future in stage production? She learned all about the light controller, how to flash and chase the lights, etc. She was a pro by the end of the night...
We left around 9PM (yes past her bedtime), we got some Wendy's Frosty's and went home to watch ND on TV. Well we were tired... so we didn't last the whole game before we both passed out. Unfortunately she hadn't finished her Frosty yet...
So today she is working on homework, I am doing some chores and trying to figure out the best way to get Frosty out of the couch...
Novali constantly reminds me that I have the coolest job, which I must say is fairly accurate. She likes coming to work and so its not a bother when I need to bring her along. She has gotten to know so many people that I work with and knows our campus better than most students I know!
Friday night was the second annual LSU Night at the SAC. Novali was excited for the Day of the Dead dance, some Zumba, pizza and of course Señora Cynthia and the LSU crew. We got there around 10PM (yes I know past her bedtime), I got some work done for my events the next day and she hung out, shot pool, danced, and had a great time. The LSU event was from 9PM to 9AM... we couldn't stay all night, but we managed to survive until a little past midnight (yes I know, WAY past her bedtime).
Saturday we got up mega early to make it for the 7AM Zumba class taught by none other than Novali's favorite student Sineyda! She ran down to do Zumba while I set up for Make a Difference Day. This was the first time we did it at IU South Bend, and we combined with another first time event "Scholars Give Back Day" as well. We had over 70 students signed up and nearly 10 staff to do service!
Novali has been wanting to do service for the Center for the Homeless ever since we donated clothes at CFH. Since I had lots of coordinating to do, she tagged along with that group and luckily as always my great students helped keep an eye on her. She enjoyed the experience and to my surprise later we had a reflection time about what she did and what she learned... yep, me the Service Learning guy... who'da figured?
I shuttled vans, got people places, made sure people didn't get lost, and then because we were short volunteers I ended up at Southfield Village, a retirement community. We were scheduled for a "Pamper Day" and I was knee deep in chatting up the old ladies and even did some back rubs. I was not however asked to help with nail painting, probably better off anyways....
We wrapped up volunteering, lunch and then Novali and I went home around 3pm... to only take some short naps and turn around and come back at 5pm to help set up for the Hallopalooza at housing that evening. Novali brought her Dorothy costume from last year and required me to dig up something... short on time I just grabbed some of my racing stuff (helmet, jacket) and some patches that Novali stuck on my Nissan Zippy.

We left around 9PM (yes past her bedtime), we got some Wendy's Frosty's and went home to watch ND on TV. Well we were tired... so we didn't last the whole game before we both passed out. Unfortunately she hadn't finished her Frosty yet...
So today she is working on homework, I am doing some chores and trying to figure out the best way to get Frosty out of the couch...
9.29.2011
Home Sick (with my Boyo)
Today was the first time I called in "sick" to work... I had to stay home with a little sick boyo named Cruz. He was weazy all night, threw up in the morning and was a little hot. So I did the 7am email to my staff to be the stay at home parent. Luckily Heather and I could split the day and she came home at lunch and we swapped.
Aside from the extremely modest FMLA time I took (none of which IU offered as paid) this is the first time I have had to call in "sick" to work. It was kinda cool in a weird way. I was glad I have good support staff that I could trust to cover work, and that technology kept me connected enough to monitor work, but be able to focus on taking care of my little man.
Heather came home and I was able to run to campus to teach and cover my other work duties for the day. While at work plugged away on a few project to-do-lists and cleared up my plate so I could focus on him once I got back home.
So technology and my staff came through for me today, and that feels good. That I can balance work life and being a father is important and glad it worked today. Now let me get back home to my little boyo.
9.14.2011
Baby Grows. Time Flies.
So needless to say for those who check out the website I made for little baby Cruzo have noticed... no updates. None. Zip. Zilch. Zero. Nada...
I know, I know... each month I promised this would be the month that I post photos, but since July 5th the website has looked the samo. Well I fixed that finally and put up pictures from July and August. September will be coming, well, at the end of September (or early October, give me some flex room).
On the flip side it isn't like I don't Tweet or Facebook updates of the little champ. So I hope everyone doesn't feel too neglected over updates on the progress of our little snuzo baby. So here are a few things going on with him in September that aren't in his new pics...
He is nearly walking! I am guessing my next blog will be about baby steps. For about a month now he has been doing the baby surf board, where he stands all by himself swaying from side to side. So for the past two weeks I try once a night to stand him up and get him to take a step towards me. So far I can get one, sometimes two... before he just dives at me. But we are nearly there and soon will have some video evidence of the guy.
Other important update was that he got baptized. He put on a good show at church, trying to grab the pastors papers, and got all excited when he saw the water. Cute pics of that also coming soon... in that already fabled September Album.
Well here are links to his two new months of pictures... it was a long time coming, and we didn't have pics of everything he did, but pretty dang close. Enjoy!
July 2011 - Summer!
August 2011 - Trips. Trips.
Enjoy and be back soon!
I know, I know... each month I promised this would be the month that I post photos, but since July 5th the website has looked the samo. Well I fixed that finally and put up pictures from July and August. September will be coming, well, at the end of September (or early October, give me some flex room).
On the flip side it isn't like I don't Tweet or Facebook updates of the little champ. So I hope everyone doesn't feel too neglected over updates on the progress of our little snuzo baby. So here are a few things going on with him in September that aren't in his new pics...
He is nearly walking! I am guessing my next blog will be about baby steps. For about a month now he has been doing the baby surf board, where he stands all by himself swaying from side to side. So for the past two weeks I try once a night to stand him up and get him to take a step towards me. So far I can get one, sometimes two... before he just dives at me. But we are nearly there and soon will have some video evidence of the guy.
Other important update was that he got baptized. He put on a good show at church, trying to grab the pastors papers, and got all excited when he saw the water. Cute pics of that also coming soon... in that already fabled September Album.
Well here are links to his two new months of pictures... it was a long time coming, and we didn't have pics of everything he did, but pretty dang close. Enjoy!
July 2011 - Summer!
August 2011 - Trips. Trips.
Enjoy and be back soon!
9.06.2011
One Year Older? Wiser? Just a Birthday...
For me birthdays have always been fairly anticlimactic. First day of school in the USA (1st grade) was my birthday, and I barely spoke English but luckily did understand when they sung to me in class (I think everyone in the world can sing it in English).
First day of Junior High, first day of High School, and first day of College... yep... all on my birthday. So needless to say generally my birthday was full of busy prep time buying notebooks, planning outfits or re-arranging furniture in my first apartment.
This year my birthday was my first day out of 13 days in a row that I did't have to work... so as in previous years the days leading up to my birthday have been filled with thoughts of everything besides the fact that today I become one year older.
So the moral of the story is that I am not a big birthday person. Not because I worry about getting older, or I don't like parties (ha!) but just out of habit of keeping them low key. Plus the only thing I know getting older has brought me is buying bigger bottles of Ibuprofen and IcyHot.
This year I mixed up it up a little... Its a big fun weekend here for my birthday! Novali and I watched the Fighting Irish take on South Florida (see previous post). Hermen, Erin and little Pippa stopped for a short visit. Plus the DeCourvals were here for the weekend and we are enjoying some nice family time. Not to mention that Heather took me out for an awesome steak dinner!
I extended my birthday into Tuesday and treated myself to Karting with my car club (www.sbrscca.org) at MRP Motorsports Park. It was a fun night and I did well! After two rounds of qualifying I was put into the "faster" race group. Nice! I was worried as it was only my second time karting, but I ended 9th of 14. No too shabby! Good way to end my extended birthday celebration.
Hopefully I won't be a photo slacker and get pics up soon!
First day of Junior High, first day of High School, and first day of College... yep... all on my birthday. So needless to say generally my birthday was full of busy prep time buying notebooks, planning outfits or re-arranging furniture in my first apartment.
This year my birthday was my first day out of 13 days in a row that I did't have to work... so as in previous years the days leading up to my birthday have been filled with thoughts of everything besides the fact that today I become one year older.
So the moral of the story is that I am not a big birthday person. Not because I worry about getting older, or I don't like parties (ha!) but just out of habit of keeping them low key. Plus the only thing I know getting older has brought me is buying bigger bottles of Ibuprofen and IcyHot.
This year I mixed up it up a little... Its a big fun weekend here for my birthday! Novali and I watched the Fighting Irish take on South Florida (see previous post). Hermen, Erin and little Pippa stopped for a short visit. Plus the DeCourvals were here for the weekend and we are enjoying some nice family time. Not to mention that Heather took me out for an awesome steak dinner!
I extended my birthday into Tuesday and treated myself to Karting with my car club (www.sbrscca.org) at MRP Motorsports Park. It was a fun night and I did well! After two rounds of qualifying I was put into the "faster" race group. Nice! I was worried as it was only my second time karting, but I ended 9th of 14. No too shabby! Good way to end my extended birthday celebration.
Hopefully I won't be a photo slacker and get pics up soon!
9.04.2011
Epic ND Game
I had promised Novali last year that once she was ten she could go to an ND Football Game. I told her that the games are long, and we go to watch the game... not spend it taking 15 minute trips to the bathroom, wanting to walking around or leave early cause she is bored. So I said once she is ten she should have the patience for a long football game.
Well for my birthday her and I went to the Notre Dame vs University of South Florida game... it was set to be a hot day. We prepared for the heat with sun screen, shades and she wore a cap. There was potential for some rain and we figured a nice rain would help cool the game off.
We walked up to the stadium just as the AirForce Flyby happened... she said... "Man that was loud, but it was awesome!"
We got some pop and headed into the stadium! Found our seats and settled in... Go Irish!
The game started off rough... actually rough might be an understatement. Two turnovers in the red zone, fumbled punt return... the game was a complete mess for the Irish. Then the real mess started at half time... weather delay just as the band started to take the field. Then they evacuated the stadium! We stayed in the concourse area for what we hoped would be a 15 minute delay...
Two hours later, and several refills into our "All You Can Drink Souvenir Cup" we were still in the concourse. Novali was resolved to stay, she didn't want to leave, but she did want a hot pretzel. The only happy people were the concession stand staff... they were raking in the money!
We finally got in for the second half and the Irish started with a FURY! It was exciting, we were getting yards, the new QB was getting it done and Novali was finally understanding some of the rules on downs.
Then as the game was looking grim... another rain delay! She still wanted to stay, we topped off our pop and waited it out.
The Irish rewarded the faithful with a great touchdown to bring the game within 3 points with only seconds left on the clock... excitement filled the air as the onside kick looked good... but was grabbed at the last minute by a USF Bull. Game over.
We had a great time! We got two games for the price of one basically... a hot day game... and a cool night game under the lights. We broke a record for a 6 hour football game, we made some friends, and Novali got her wish of watching the Irish play. Hopefully next time we go, they win...
Well for my birthday her and I went to the Notre Dame vs University of South Florida game... it was set to be a hot day. We prepared for the heat with sun screen, shades and she wore a cap. There was potential for some rain and we figured a nice rain would help cool the game off.
We walked up to the stadium just as the AirForce Flyby happened... she said... "Man that was loud, but it was awesome!"
We got some pop and headed into the stadium! Found our seats and settled in... Go Irish!
The game started off rough... actually rough might be an understatement. Two turnovers in the red zone, fumbled punt return... the game was a complete mess for the Irish. Then the real mess started at half time... weather delay just as the band started to take the field. Then they evacuated the stadium! We stayed in the concourse area for what we hoped would be a 15 minute delay...
Two hours later, and several refills into our "All You Can Drink Souvenir Cup" we were still in the concourse. Novali was resolved to stay, she didn't want to leave, but she did want a hot pretzel. The only happy people were the concession stand staff... they were raking in the money!
We finally got in for the second half and the Irish started with a FURY! It was exciting, we were getting yards, the new QB was getting it done and Novali was finally understanding some of the rules on downs.
Then as the game was looking grim... another rain delay! She still wanted to stay, we topped off our pop and waited it out.

We had a great time! We got two games for the price of one basically... a hot day game... and a cool night game under the lights. We broke a record for a 6 hour football game, we made some friends, and Novali got her wish of watching the Irish play. Hopefully next time we go, they win...
8.17.2011
Daddy Daughter Road Trip!
For our summer trip Novali and I had a fun trip to visit my older brother Miguel's family in Oxford, MS. It is an 11 hour drive, so we planned an overnight on each leg of the drive. Mostly to split up the drive, but also to get to see some fun new things. Here is a recap of the trip we made.
We kicked off the trip with a late night drive into Springfield, IL. We spent a short morning visiting the State Capital and then the Lincoln Museum. There was a lot more to see in the area, so I am sure we will visit again some day. Novali said her school takes the 8th graders so she got a little head start. We saw all of that, got lunch and hit the road to Oxford.
Novali enjoyed the drive and is a great roadtrip partner. She loves reading an Atlas and tracking where we are on the map. Listing cities with funny names, enjoying the new landscape and taking videos of us crossing the Mississippi River and state lines. We arrived in Oxford around dinner time.
Miguel and Kate are faculty at Ole Miss and we got a late night tour of campus and of course got to play with Javi and Zoe before their bedtime.
Saturday was out full day in Oxford. We kicked it off at BottleTree Bakery. Novali loved it because she wants to be a baker, loves pastries AND the place is on Oprah's List of favorite things...
We spent part of the day enjoying time at a park with the kids, some time at home playing with toys (and trains), Novali and Miguel made ice cream and time just catching up. For dinner we want to Ajax Diner a place in downtown Oxford on their square. Downtown Oxford is called the Square and is very well maintained and has a great Southern classic look and feel. We ran into an impromptu parade with kilts and bagpipes, and the kids got to run around.
Sunday morning we had a delicious brunch at Big Bad Breakfast. Luckily we arrived in time to beat the crazy lined that formed after we arrived. It was an amazing combo of grits, locally produced meats, and other southern items. After breakfast we rolled over to the home of William Faulkner. Miguel and Kate were great hosts and we hope to visit them and the kids again soon!
Then we hit the road... on Miguel's recommendation we planned a dinner stop in Sikestons, MO for "Throwed Rolls" at Lamberts Cafe. Novali didn't believe me that they would actually throw rolls... I wasn't sure either, but man they did! It was a fun family style dinner where they brought around all you can eat sides, and of course threw rolls at you (to catch and eat). Novali refused to catch any at first... but finally before we left she caught half of a roll (the rolls were huge) thrown by our guy.
We spent the last night in St. Louis at a Double Tree... we munched on some cookies and got some sleep. We woke early to a big breakfast and trip into St. Louis to see the Gateway Arch. We saw some of the park, walked along the Mississippi and then packed back into the car...
It was a fun roadtrip. We proved that sometimes an Atlas is better than a GPS. We proved that stretching out in a rest area parking lot will get you a lot of stares. We proved that a large Dominos pizza can be eaten while you drive (and makes a good in car table, and also a second meal...). We proved that you can have fun on a budget and short on time.
Full pictures at Novali's site: Novali
We kicked off the trip with a late night drive into Springfield, IL. We spent a short morning visiting the State Capital and then the Lincoln Museum. There was a lot more to see in the area, so I am sure we will visit again some day. Novali said her school takes the 8th graders so she got a little head start. We saw all of that, got lunch and hit the road to Oxford.
Miguel and Kate are faculty at Ole Miss and we got a late night tour of campus and of course got to play with Javi and Zoe before their bedtime.
Saturday was out full day in Oxford. We kicked it off at BottleTree Bakery. Novali loved it because she wants to be a baker, loves pastries AND the place is on Oprah's List of favorite things...
Sunday morning we had a delicious brunch at Big Bad Breakfast. Luckily we arrived in time to beat the crazy lined that formed after we arrived. It was an amazing combo of grits, locally produced meats, and other southern items. After breakfast we rolled over to the home of William Faulkner. Miguel and Kate were great hosts and we hope to visit them and the kids again soon!
Then we hit the road... on Miguel's recommendation we planned a dinner stop in Sikestons, MO for "Throwed Rolls" at Lamberts Cafe. Novali didn't believe me that they would actually throw rolls... I wasn't sure either, but man they did! It was a fun family style dinner where they brought around all you can eat sides, and of course threw rolls at you (to catch and eat). Novali refused to catch any at first... but finally before we left she caught half of a roll (the rolls were huge) thrown by our guy.
We spent the last night in St. Louis at a Double Tree... we munched on some cookies and got some sleep. We woke early to a big breakfast and trip into St. Louis to see the Gateway Arch. We saw some of the park, walked along the Mississippi and then packed back into the car...
Full pictures at Novali's site: Novali
8.01.2011
Dos Años Already?
Really wow... two years already? That seems like time has flown, but really we have been up to a whole lot of stuff in two years.
We have gotten settled into our home. Not sure settled is the term, cause for the most part we have been unsettled here... we have done three major projects in the house (boiler, windows, roof). There has been the cycle of painting rooms (3 done so far) and putting more and more stuff in storage in the basement.
The DeCourval/Centellas Bed and Breakfast (our home) has hosted a record breaking 13 people as overnight guests in one night, several Centellas family holidays and in two years maybe 100 room nights rented (for free mostly). We hosted friends and family from Indy, Chicago, Saginaw, Mississippi, Detroit, and of course Bad Axe, MI and other places around the country.
We got a new car... well new to us. So far the Element has done two road trips for us and done us proud. One to Chicago for our first Black Tie fundraising Gala, and one to my old stomping grounds in Gladwin, MI to see Pratt lake. Our new "family" vehicle can tow bikes, fit toys, stroller and our little family and get nearly 25 MPG. Take that OPEC!
Our little family has been traveling... just this spring we went to Iowa City, Bad Axe, Detroit, Chicago, Indianapolis, and this past weekend Gladwin, MI. Hopefully soon we will take our honeymoon trip to South America and complete our planned trip which was interrupted by the best part of this update...
When I say our little family it is already bigger. Novali is ten now and while her sassiness can be at an all time high she is a ton of fun. She is swimming now and very independent (making her own breakfast as I type this) and is most importantly a great big sister.... yep, we have a baby. What? The best part of our anniversary is that we have a growing little family.
Yeah instead of a honeymoon that we postponed when life would be less busy (not sure when that will happen) we spent it shopping for strollers and cribs. Instead of painting and decorating our room we painted a beautiful little baby room (I hate when people call it a nursery, likes it is a baby factory or something).
In our short Dos Años we welcomed little Cruz Centellas into our house and it has been great. Mornings are a little more hectic, nights are a little less sleep filled, and meals are always a little more rushed... but man has bath time been more fun, the camera never been so busy, and our house just a constant stream of something new and potential youtube videos.

Happy Anniversary Babe. If all this happened in two years... think what the next dos might bring us!
7.29.2011
Daddy Daughter Decorating Part 2
Well we have been at it again... work on the house and this time a fun Novali project. For her 10th Birthday Heather and I got her the paint she had been wanting (Talkative Turquoise) and bedding for her to redo her room. She was excited as she likes to help work on the house and learn how to do new things.
We spent the last few months getting parts together... curtains, closet organizers and picking a color for the other walls since we only agreed to a turquoise accent wall... not sure we could handle a turquoise room! Other people got into the room decor and my brother Andres got her peel and stick flowers for her walls and Anita and Dave got a little window AC unit for her room.
The work kicked off the weekend that the DeCourvals came to visit. Dave helped me prep the walls, patch holes and cracks and repair all the bad past paint jobs. Novali was evicted and was sleeping in our room... plus with no AC she enjoyed staying in our much cooler room anyways.
It was a lot of work... and as usual turned in a If You Give A Mouse A Cookie situation... then we need new closet shelves, then some curtain rods, then new posters, etc. We still re-purposed and used all of her old furniture.
So here are a few pictures of the finished project. More before, after and project pictures on the link below.
Here is a link to our past projects to track what she has helped do around the house!
Daddy Daughter Decorating Part 2 (July 2011) - Pictures
Daddy Daughter Construction (Feb 2011)
Daddy Daughter Decorating (Dec 2010)
Thanks to everyone who pitched in on the project with gifts or time. She is a happy camper and lets home she doesn't watch some crazier color next time!
We spent the last few months getting parts together... curtains, closet organizers and picking a color for the other walls since we only agreed to a turquoise accent wall... not sure we could handle a turquoise room! Other people got into the room decor and my brother Andres got her peel and stick flowers for her walls and Anita and Dave got a little window AC unit for her room.
The work kicked off the weekend that the DeCourvals came to visit. Dave helped me prep the walls, patch holes and cracks and repair all the bad past paint jobs. Novali was evicted and was sleeping in our room... plus with no AC she enjoyed staying in our much cooler room anyways.
It was a lot of work... and as usual turned in a If You Give A Mouse A Cookie situation... then we need new closet shelves, then some curtain rods, then new posters, etc. We still re-purposed and used all of her old furniture.
So here are a few pictures of the finished project. More before, after and project pictures on the link below.
Daddy Daughter Decorating Part 2 (July 2011) - Pictures
Daddy Daughter Construction (Feb 2011)
Daddy Daughter Decorating (Dec 2010)
Thanks to everyone who pitched in on the project with gifts or time. She is a happy camper and lets home she doesn't watch some crazier color next time!
7.04.2011
Yard: Before and After
I spent a large part of the Fourth of July weekend in the yard... I had Sunday home alone and that helped me focus and work on projects. So I figured some nice before and after photos were in order as well as some details on the work we did.
We bought our house in November of 2008. The yard (on top of other things) had not been well cared for over the years so we had a lot of projects. Yard works is something I have always enjoyed and it also provided me an outlet for some creative juices. The yard was practically a clean slate, but some remnants made for interesting ideas to re-purpose items.
Here are two "Before" Pics:


As you can see everything was overgrown... first order of business was a 100 foot tall Oak tree in the backyard that was rotting and mostly dead. We then cut (with help from Dave) lots of trees and bushes down around the yard. Chasing the vines that had grown all over was also a big and not-fun job but we cleared those out.
Two things we kept and re-purposed: the patio (and extra blocks) and the swing set.
The patio was all over grown and very small. So when we replaced the side walkways I took those bricks and used them to extend the patio. Eventually we need to replace the entire area as it is unlevel and falling apart, but for now with the new tiles and weeds removed it works.
The swing set was an old solid wood set. It was heavy, but we moved it to the other side of the yard when we cut the big tree down. Then with some elbow grease and helped from Menards I cleaned it, stained it, and replaced some of the hardware. Two new swings and a baby swing from our friend Kari and she was good as new! Throw down some mulch and we have a home playground!
The biggest project was the South side of the house. The clay ground wouldn't grow grass, and the lack of any type of landscaping meant it really need some serious work. In 2010 I did the side mulch, removed an old antenna base, and put in step-stones, flowers and a bench. In 2011 I finished the corner off with some stairs to the lower yard, more flowers and a mulch path to the concrete apron on the back of the house.
Here are a couple "After" pics:


Here are more pictures: Yardwork 2011
There is a lot more to do... we need to landscape the hill from our upper yard to lower yard, we need a new patio (maybe a deck?), I would like a storage shed (that looks like a little house), and then we need a nice complete fence around the yard with gates on both sides of the house. Then maybe Heather can get the dog she has been wanting...
We bought our house in November of 2008. The yard (on top of other things) had not been well cared for over the years so we had a lot of projects. Yard works is something I have always enjoyed and it also provided me an outlet for some creative juices. The yard was practically a clean slate, but some remnants made for interesting ideas to re-purpose items.
Here are two "Before" Pics:


As you can see everything was overgrown... first order of business was a 100 foot tall Oak tree in the backyard that was rotting and mostly dead. We then cut (with help from Dave) lots of trees and bushes down around the yard. Chasing the vines that had grown all over was also a big and not-fun job but we cleared those out.
Two things we kept and re-purposed: the patio (and extra blocks) and the swing set.
The patio was all over grown and very small. So when we replaced the side walkways I took those bricks and used them to extend the patio. Eventually we need to replace the entire area as it is unlevel and falling apart, but for now with the new tiles and weeds removed it works.
The swing set was an old solid wood set. It was heavy, but we moved it to the other side of the yard when we cut the big tree down. Then with some elbow grease and helped from Menards I cleaned it, stained it, and replaced some of the hardware. Two new swings and a baby swing from our friend Kari and she was good as new! Throw down some mulch and we have a home playground!
The biggest project was the South side of the house. The clay ground wouldn't grow grass, and the lack of any type of landscaping meant it really need some serious work. In 2010 I did the side mulch, removed an old antenna base, and put in step-stones, flowers and a bench. In 2011 I finished the corner off with some stairs to the lower yard, more flowers and a mulch path to the concrete apron on the back of the house.
Here are a couple "After" pics:
Here are more pictures: Yardwork 2011
There is a lot more to do... we need to landscape the hill from our upper yard to lower yard, we need a new patio (maybe a deck?), I would like a storage shed (that looks like a little house), and then we need a nice complete fence around the yard with gates on both sides of the house. Then maybe Heather can get the dog she has been wanting...
6.22.2011
Old vs New(er)
Shopping for a car drives me totally crazy. I spend all hours of the day shopping... on Craigslist, looking at dealer websites, stalking car lots... then when I find a potential car I read all the reviews, cost of ownership, KBB, Carfax...
I remember January of 2007 when I found a used 2005 Altima and fell in love despite it being Coral Sand color (gold). This one had sat for a while because of the color and being stick (no one in Michigan drives stick). Got a killer deal, they took my Sentra (weirdly also gold and stick) and off I went.
I did a few upgrades to her: tinted windows, Momo knob and the first Redline Goods shift boots ever made for an 05-06 Altima (I made templates and they now reproduce). Look at the site... its my car on there! Some Infiniti G35 Coupe 18in. wheels, Mobil1 synthetic, K&N Airfilter and with only the best she was loved... but... there is always a but in a good love story.
Heather never picked up driving stick, and with a baby the "I can't drive your car shuffle" is hard... (why I wanted her to learn) I lost that battle along with all the rest of them I guess... On the practical side though, as a home owner I need something bigger for getting landscaping materials or 2x4s and a new storm door. Doesn't fit in the Altima...
The Altima had to go... I wanted something interessting, with some style and fun! I started shopping around... and looking for a place to trade in my baby.
I found the vehicle... I remember the 2001 Detroit Autoshow when I saw the "Model X". It was supposed to be all the functionality of a truck, but the drive of an SUV and the gas mileage of a car. It was a cool copper color, not sure why I remember that but I do (can't find online pics of car at show).
I was shopping for a Pathfinder, Vue or something boring like that... after some test drives and frustration one day on my way to work on a lot I saw a nice fully loaded Alabaster Gray Honda Element... research time! Websites, showing friends, talking to other owners for feedback... I drove the car... worked on the deal... got financing (rates are good right now!) and made a deal on my new(er) toy...

Surprisingly the car is almost 20 inches shorter than the Altima and barely an inch wider. So she will take LESS space in the drive, haul MORE stuff and get the same mileage or BETTER than the Altima. WIN. WIN. WIN. So welcome Honda back into my life... its been a long time since my CRX and Acura days... cheers to the Element!
I remember January of 2007 when I found a used 2005 Altima and fell in love despite it being Coral Sand color (gold). This one had sat for a while because of the color and being stick (no one in Michigan drives stick). Got a killer deal, they took my Sentra (weirdly also gold and stick) and off I went.
I did a few upgrades to her: tinted windows, Momo knob and the first Redline Goods shift boots ever made for an 05-06 Altima (I made templates and they now reproduce). Look at the site... its my car on there! Some Infiniti G35 Coupe 18in. wheels, Mobil1 synthetic, K&N Airfilter and with only the best she was loved... but... there is always a but in a good love story.
Heather never picked up driving stick, and with a baby the "I can't drive your car shuffle" is hard... (why I wanted her to learn) I lost that battle along with all the rest of them I guess... On the practical side though, as a home owner I need something bigger for getting landscaping materials or 2x4s and a new storm door. Doesn't fit in the Altima...
The Altima had to go... I wanted something interessting, with some style and fun! I started shopping around... and looking for a place to trade in my baby.
I was shopping for a Pathfinder, Vue or something boring like that... after some test drives and frustration one day on my way to work on a lot I saw a nice fully loaded Alabaster Gray Honda Element... research time! Websites, showing friends, talking to other owners for feedback... I drove the car... worked on the deal... got financing (rates are good right now!) and made a deal on my new(er) toy...

