10.28.2010
So I want to know... will ND do the right thing?
I use that phrase all the time, and for those who know me know that I have thought about going to law school for a long time. I am the risk management and legal consultant for my fraternity and we use that thought process to make decisions.
I train my board members and national volunteers how to respond during a crisis. I am reflecting on how we handle things, and looking at how ND is going to handle this situation with the death of a student.
You are trained in crisis management to avoid legal issues (civil suit) to:
Never Apologize
Never admit responsibility
Say you feel bad
Say good things about the victim
Say good thing about the people who (accidentally or on purpose) caused the incident
Say you sympathize
Never let anyone, but someone trained to speak, speak to the media
So far since the death of the student last night at football practice the ND statements have been just as outlined above. The football players have been instructed not to answer questions, and no one from the team but Coach Kelly and Father Jenkins have given a statement. Those statements were completely along the lines stated above.
So I want to know... will ND do the right thing?
Now we are in day two... so will the statements change? I am sure ND is worried about getting sued by the family. I am sure ND is trying to figure out how to mitigate their liability. I am sure ND is worried about what this means for their football team.
So I want to know... will ND do the right thing?
Will they say, "NO" to their lawyers and come out and say they are sorry? Or will they keep up the song and dance to try and avoid a bigger lawsuit? Will someone call the family? Or will they send a heartless, tight rope walking letter hoping to get sued for less?
Here is the difference... just like my fraternity, ND isn't a heartless corporation. They aren't Walmart trying to not get sued for a lot of money and have to raise prices. They are a values based institution that values human life and more importantly doing the right thing. There are banners all over campus that talk about ethical education...
So I want to know... will ND do the right thing?
Will Coach Kelly take a press release. Will he look straight at the camera and say, he is sorry. Will he say that he is ultimately responsible for everything that happens. Wins, Losses, Signing the best players, and yes... when something tragic happens. Will Coach Kelly say that hindsight is 20/20, but he can't go back and make different decisions. Will he say we should of not had him up there. Will he say that they might not of had a good process for deciding if the lift should of gone up. Will he say, that he knows that no matter what he says he can't bring him back, but that he will do all he can to ensure his memory is forgotten.
More importantly, will Coach Kelly, as a father himself, call the father of that young man and say... I am sorry. I can't bring him back, but I will do anything in the world in my power to make this right.
ND. Do The Right Thing. Do the Right Thing and make us all believe that sometimes its about more than money, or more than admitting a mistake... and make me believe that even if I become a lawyer someday, and I have to answer a question like this in my fraternity that I will do the right thing.
So I NEED to know... will ND do the right thing?
10.27.2010
I don't want to be Holster Guy... But...
Apple iPhone recommends 15mm (5/8 of an inch)
Blackberry recommends 25mm (7/8 of an inch)
I saw it this morning on the CBS Morning show... "Cell Phones in Pockets"...and this one really got my attention. I am trying to find what the distance is on my Palm Pre.
WOW that is a lot... so for the ladies who keep it in their purse, that is fine. For me and I bet tons of other guys we just keep it in our pocket. I personally hate holsters... I don't want to be holster guy...
I tried a holster a little this summer because it was annoying always carrying it in my pocket at work. I didn't like it...
So what am I to do? Man bag? Murse? Or the dreaded holster?
10.20.2010
The Terminal
So I am a little worn down right now. I like the trips, I like working with students at other schools, I love seeing the good work my chapters are doing around the country, I am excited to take students to this conference.... and I am VERY excited about the family weekend with Novali and Kelly's girls all together again.
November will be chill... we will do all our baby prep and finish the room, some final organizing and things around the house we need done to prepare for the stream of visitors will be having this winter. Including the newest little Centellas... it is really exciting and that energy is what is keeping me going right now.
Wish me luck as I get through one of my busiest months in a long time... I know that soon... it will get even busier!
10.05.2010
Whoa Karting
Well for this monthly meeting we decided to go Karting. Besides at amusement parks or things like that I have never done "real" karting. So this was an adventure for me and man it was FUN. We went to Michiana Raceway Park out near North Liberty, IN.
I was surprised that the karts didn't have harnesses or seat belts. We were required to wear fire jackets, neck supports, gloves and full face helmets though. Surprisingly the seats kept you in tight, even when you were getting bump drafted or spun out in a circle...
10.03.2010
Its Fall Time
This weekend Novali was here visiting and we had a lot of fall time fun. We did some indoor go karts, played basketball and she even wanted to learn how to grill chicken. So needless to say I was a proud papi for the weekend.
We went to Strikes and Spares in South Bend. Surprisingly I have never done the go karts there, it was a nice little indoor track and we had fun. We did two runs, one which was just us and it was fun, the second had a flock of girls who just crashed into each other (and us) but we still have fun.
On Sunday we went to campus and hit up the SAC. It was family hours so they had the small rim pulled out and she got to practice her shots. She is thinking about trying to play basketball at her school this year, so we need to practice more.
It was a fun fall Indiana weekend. Weird to think a month ago I had her during the week and now I just have her every other weekend. She was bummed because in Sunday school they practiced for a play, but she won't be here then... maybe she can do a winter play here.
I posted a few new pics on her website... I know I know... Finally!
Novali: Oct 2010 - Fall Fun
9.05.2010
Whew...
I was able to sneak away from work on Thursday and run to Chicago to do Novali's conference with her teacher. So we got to meet her new teacher, see her classroom and organize her desk. It made for a long day, but it meant we got to kick the weekend off a little early and I had Novali for four days before she starts up school.
We had a fun weekend.... my birthday I had to work, but I took Novali so it was fun. Heather and Novali took me to Hacienda for my Friday favorite, Fish Tacos. We had to cut dinner short because I promised our Latino Student Union I would help out with their Lock In that night. Novi was excited to come with me and we had a great time. She introduced herself in front of 30+ strangers, we did a Zumbda class, shot some baskets, and she even danced with all the college kids. She said she loves college and I had to drag her out of there past midnight!
Saturday and Sunday were chill days.... we needed them! It was full of football, grilling brats and hot dogs, movies and of course some yardwork.... and not to mention a little work on the Z which I am doing right now that Novali is in bed. Tomorrow we will finish organizing her folders for school and get her back to Chicago. Then fall really kicks off!
8.23.2010
Bad Car Times
On Friday night I came home, worked on the Z a little trying to get my AFM boot repair finished. She fired right up, idled strong and I took her around the block. She had about a quarter of a tank (from my lawn mower tank cause I ran out the weekend before trying to test drive her) so I figured while I am out, lets run and get some gas. She ran strong and I was zipping around the neighborhood en route to the local Speedway. Well at the busy intersection just before the gas station... BAM... died... ARGH.
She would not turn back over. Tried and tried... nothing... finally a guy offered to help push. He ran to park his car and right then... she started! I got her into the Speedway but man she was running super rich. I udjusted the idle and got her to stop stalling... but I figured I better try to drive it home at a less busy time... so I left her there...
On Saturday at home I was trying to finish up a project. I got some white leather seats from a Z in a junkyard and I was in the process of dying them black. I did the back side of them and they looked great. I started on the front and... BAM... paint issues... ARGH...
Once it dried the paint looked flat and like it didn't want to stick. I cleaned em well, and they looked better but still look flat (the back was all glossy). So I went and got one more can of the dye and tried again... BAM... still flat. So now not sure what I am going to do, might just use some leather conditioner and see if that will make it glossy. It looks like the paint dried and it is not flaking off... so not sure what happened.
So to round out my weekend on Sunday I had to work. I ran in we had a training sessions for some students. As I was leaving I was hurrying to get home and as I pulled out I turned too sharp out of my end spot and.... BAM... curb rash... ARGH...
Now my front rim has a big curb rash on it and will be a constant reminder to stop being in a rush (or stop working on Sundays).
Rough weekend for my rides... luckily nothing wrong with the Jetta... knock on wood...
8.05.2010
The Trend
Anyhow today I wanted to rant about the heat here... so our house doesn't have AC. It is an old house, and to put ducts into an older all brick home with real plaster walls would cost a ton and ruin all beautiful walls. However when it is consistently over 90 degrees with lots of humidity it makes me wonder... should we start saving for AC?
So other haps around the house lately. Well we are finally getting our roof repair done. After dealing with two contractors that bailed on the job I think we got a winner and also a good price. The benefit of the slate roof is that it is easier to repair in just portion and it has lasted for nearly 80 years and still has a few more years left.
I do have the room addition bug though... yes we bought a big four bedroom house to grow into... but one of our neighbors is putting on a HUGE addition to their house (nearly doubling the size). It has me wondering how much it would cost, how long until we have equity to get an improvement loan or how much our house value has gone up from all the updates and repairs we have already done.
It is August now... so I am half way through lawn mowing time I think... don't remind me that leaf time is coming but I have enjoyed trying to nurse our backyard back to health. It was a jungle when we got the house and it is slowly coming along.
Anyhow... just a random blog about the house. Peace.
8.01.2010
Happy Anniversary
7.31.2010
To Blog or Not to Blog
I will try to get back into the habit of writing a little bit. With Facebook now I post items there and forget about this... but there I am limited in how much I write so I need to get back into the Blogger Habit.
Check out the other places I "write":
www.meandmyz.blogspot.com
www.twitter.com/cruceno21
www.facebook.com/cruceno21
Thanks and stay tuned for a new post soon... and maybe a new blog.
9.08.2009
Its September!
![]() Working hard in the kitchen. | ![]() Dinner is served! |
![]() Team PLP finally got some groupies! | ![]() Hermen tearing it up at GVSU. |
![]() Verona Hills Golf Club. | ![]() Bad Axe, Michigan. |
![]() Rehearsal Dinner. | ![]() Saying our vows. |
6.29.2009
Photo Update
![]() Novali doing yard work with Heather's mom... she likes gardening. | ![]() Novali played outdoor soccer this spring with her elementary school. |
![]() Bags and bags of leaves... and then more bags. | ![]() Novali loved the bed of daisies that we had. |
![]() Team PLP pitcrew (me) changing the wheels to race rubber. | ![]() I won PAX for the first time ever out of over 70 cars! |
6.09.2009
What's the Haps
5.10.2009
Yard Work
![]() Don't even know what this is... but it was purple and cool. | ![]() Heather loves daffodils and we had TONS of them. |
![]() Memories of Holland, MI... Tulips. | ![]() I need to start learning the names of our flowers... no clue. |
![]() We have several flowering bushes around the house as well. | ![]() These Lilac bushes are especially nice and smell great. |
![]() The bags and bags and bags... | ![]() The hard work is paying off... at least in the front yard. |
4.23.2009
Traveling
4.19.2009
Birthday Season
![]() Novali and her birthday hat at the hotel. | ![]() Dancing with Tio Andres in the hotel room. |
![]() Every kid loves a pool party. | ![]() Happy Birthday! |
![]() The beautiful Methodist Chicago Temple. | ![]() In the Palmer House after church. |
3.30.2009
Maybe Spring?
3.21.2009
Girl Scout Cookies
3.15.2009
Roses are Red
![]() Pancake shapes: Heart, Star and Bear. | ![]() Novi's bed... her cool disney pillow. |
![]() Novali up in the tree again. | ![]() Hopefully red roses will be growing soon. |
2.22.2009
What a Month
![]() Our little snowman. | ![]() Climbing up the crabapple tree. |